SECRET OF SUCCESS !

The secret is finally revealed!

Politicians, Popes, Leading Scientists, Kings and Army Leaders have been using the secret to achieve all their miraculous Success through their lifetime.

Now the secret is available for us. It is hard to believe it and accept it but, that makes it so important. It is simple like a Child Play. Jus keep on reading....

The first part of the secret is: We attract and create everything happening in our life.

It is called The Law Of Attraction. It is difficult to accept that someone can bring himself a cancer or a horrible accident, but it is a scientifically fact, proven by the Quantum Physics.

The power of our thoughts is enormous and goes far beyond the limits of the body. Our thoughts are like a very strong magnet attracting everything which is in synch so we think about bad stuff like being in debt or becoming and more of the same is coming to us.

We know it is almost impossible to generate a positive thought when we are surrounded by bad circumstances. But this is where the game starts. We have to understand that, those bad circumstances, surrounding us right now have been created by us, our negative thoughts attracted and continue to attract that bad stuff.

It is like a vicious circle or more correct a spiral going down and down. How to stop that? Reverse our thoughts. Here comes the most difficult part: Can we control our thoughts? The fact is that one can do that unless in possession of a super power. How an ordinary human being can achieve that control? The answer is by watching emotions. It turns out that emotions are even easier to control and they can affect our thoughts.

Every time we catch ourselves in a bad mood of Negative emotion -- Switch to a Positive one. This is the clue. We have to create a Vision, Recall an event from your life, where we have been extremely Happy, and call this moment every time we find ourselves in a Bad Mood or Emotion. How simple is that every one can do it. It takes a part of second to make it happened. Let’s reveal the three practical steps about creating our life.

Step one:

Ask for it. Write on a piece of paper what we want. Draw a picture, make a photograph and put it on the wall in the spot we can see it easily.

Step Two:

Bring it. This is not our part. It is obligation of the universe to bring to us whatever we ask for. We have no power to know How Is This Going To Happen?

Step Three:

Receive it. We have to prepare ourselves for receiving what we have asked for. Here comes the obligation to keep the positive emotions and thoughts on synch of what we are asking for.

Deep inside of us have to be, absolute faith that the thing we asked for is On Its Way To us. We have to start seeing it materialized and act as it is already here. And the most important part of the game, as it is already here we have to be grateful to the Universe Creator, God ( sai ) or whatever we call it, which is bringing our desire to us. This is the most important part to understand and apply. If we send a Thank You message to the Universe for a something which is not yet materialized, then the Universe has no chance but to deliver it us as soon as possible.

And the last part of our preparation is:

Give whatever we want to be given. If we want money – start giving money. If we need help start helping others. The secret is now revealed to us. It is so simple and powerful and has been in use for ages. It is difficult to believe in it and that is what is going to separate the Winners from the Losers in this life.

Let Us All use it and enjoy every bit of our lives Here and Now!

(Courtesy: Priya)

Boss making passes? Tips to handle it with care : (Courtesy: Priya)

The corny but scary office scenario goes something like this:

The boss runs after the female subordinate. The pat on the bottom and the leering at the clevage follows.

So, how does one cope with the leers, innuendos and gropes !

If it was a co-worker, you can take it to the boss. But what do you do if it's the boss himself who can't seem to control his testosterone?

Real or imaginary

Make sure that it's not just your imagination and that the boss is really predatory.

Dress codeGals, it always comes back to this. Wear less clingy clothes to work. Show off your knowledge and expertise, not your clevage.

Watch your words and actions

The businesslike handing over of a file can be quite different from a languid gesture that invites a fumble. Don't succumb to flattery and send wrong signals that may be difficult to handle.

Handle with kid gloves

It is not easy to antagonise the Boss. Stare back pointedly, gently joke about the leer without getting emotional. Do it with others around; the public embarrassment may stop it. If it is your bosom, say, "Is there a spot on my dress?" or "Did I wear my husband's/boyfriend's/brother's shirt by mistake?" "Do you like my blouse? You can get the same at XYZ for your wife !".

Avoid solo contact

Not easy, especially when you are asked to come into the boss's cabin and close the door. Tell a colleague about the meeting. Glass-walled and modular offices are great, so try to maintain dignity. Keep the table between you at all times.

Get support

Confide in a co-worker. In the presence of others, discuss sexual harassment in a movie or serial, especially when the boss is in hearing distance! They can bear witness if the affair becomes official or a legal issue.

Keep a record

Record incidents, occasions, dates etc. of episodes to strengthen your case and show a pattern of harassment.

Dont go emo, cope up:

1) If the behaviour continues, object politely but firmly-no tears please.

2) Firmly push away the groping hand.

3) Say loudly, "Stop! You are invading my personal space."

4) Repeat sexual innuendos or doubtful statements in a loud voice and ask what he means, very effective when there are others around.

5) Leave out pamphlets or articles around on sexual harassment.

6) Use the phrase "sexual harassment" or "sexual assault" freely and frequently when he is around.

7) Complain to HR if it continues even if your leery Boss is the top man. Explain the situation and your discomfort. A safe working environment is part of your contract.

8) If all else fails, bite the bullet! Look for another job.

Three Powerful Words : (Courtesy: Priya)

A funny story is told about General George Patton from his World War II days. He once accepted an invitation to dine at a press camp in Africa. Wine was served in canteen cups but, obviously thinking he was served coffee, Patton poured cream into his cup. As he stirred in sugar, Patton was warned that his cup contained red wine and not coffee.

Now, General Patton could never, never be wrong. Without hesitating he replied, "I know. I like my wine this way." And he drank it! I relate this story because I see something of myself, and perhaps most of us, here. It is difficult to admit mistakes. It is hard to admit when we are wrong. Three of life's most difficult words to say are, "I was wrong."

But they are also three of the most powerful words we can utter. "I was wrong" breaks down barriers between people. It brings estranged people together. And it creates a climate where intimacy and love may flourish. You may be surprised at how positively many people respond to the words, "I was wrong"!

Naturally, it is a risk. But to admit when you are wrong is not to confess that you are a "bad" person. Simply an honest one and true friends will appreciate you for it.Whole and happy lives are built by people who have learned the power of intimacy, in part, through the use of the words "I was wrong."

Training Yourself For Better Concentration (Courtesy: Vasanth)

Concentration means directing one's attention on whatever one intends. We all have a natural ability to concentrate. Have you noticed how difficult it is to get young children's attention when they are playing? Do you remember the time when you were completely engrossed in an interesting novel, a super film, an exciting match or an exhilarating piece of music? You were concentrating then. At this very moment you are reading these words, you are concentrating.



It helps to know what it is like to concentrate, so that you can get back to that state of being.



What is poor concentration?



When people say that they can't concentrate, it usually means that they cannot stay focused on one thing for as long as they would like. Most of us experience lapses in concentration every day. We are not usually concerned about it; we may not even notice these lapses in concentration. They only become a problem when we find that we cannot get things done as quickly as we would like, or when they cause us to make mistakes.



You do not concentrate when you allow your environment to distract you, and/or your thoughts and feelings to interrupt you. Your thoughts are scattered; your mind jumps from one thing to another like a monkey. It helps to learn and to practice concentration strategies, to harness your monkey mind, so that it works at your will. If you know the causes of your poor concentration, you can learn to control these factors.



Factors that may cause poor concentration



Lack of concentration is one of the frequent complaints among students mainly due to distraction. There are two types of distractions: external and internal.



External Distractions



External distractions are related to the physical environment of your study area. Once you have identified these distractions, it is often easy to deal with them. Some of the common external distractions are:



a. Noise; conversations

b. Inappropriate furniture; inadequate lighting

c. Interruption from other people; telephone , mobile, sms

d. Television, FM Radion, mp3 player

e. Work: paid or unpaid; housework

f. The Internet; email



Internal Distractions



Internal distractions are related to you: your body, your thoughts and your emotions. Some of them can be easily dealt with once they are identified. Others can be managed with practice and/or with a little help. Some of the common internal distractions are:



a. Hunger; tiredness; illness

b. Lack of motivation; boredom; lack of interest

c. Personal worries; stress; anxiety

d. Negative thinking

e. Daydreaming

f. Lack of organization; dyslexia

Inspirational Movie (Courtesy: Naveen)

Words of wisdom - a must download & watch presentation

An arrow can be shot only by dragging it backward.
So whenever Life pulls you backward
Don't Worry - It is an indication of a path leading you towards victory.
Words - Powerful than swords.
Let's see whether the attached Words of Wisdom have impact on our thinking tanks.

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To All Married Couples and Singles Who Intend to Get Married (Worth reading this)

To All Married Couples and Singles Who Intend to Get Married (Worth reading this)
(contibuted by Anik Mehta)

When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I've got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.

Suddenly I didn't know how to open my mouth. But I had to lether know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly. She didn't seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why? I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man!

That night, we didn't talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; I had lost my heart to a lovely girl called Dew. I didn't love her anymore. I just pitied her!

With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, 30% shares of my company and the car. She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had said for I loved Dew so dearly.

Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now.

The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table. I didn't have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Dew. When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again.

In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn't want anything from me, but needed a month's notice before the divorce. She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a month's time and she didn't want to disrupt him with our broken marriage.

This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day. She requested that everyday for the month's duration I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning. I thought she was going crazy.Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request.

I told Dew about my wife s divorce conditions. She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully. My wife and I hadn't had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mummy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don't tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset.

I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office.On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest... I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn't looked at this woman carefully for a long time. I realized she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered what I had done to her.On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning...

This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me. On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I didn't tell Dew about this. It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger.

She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily. Suddenly it hit me; she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart.

Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head. Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it's time to carry mum out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his life. My wife gestured to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly; it was just like our wedding day.

But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I hadn't noticed that our life lacked intimacy. I drove to office... jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind... I walked upstairs. Dew opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Dew, I do not want the divorce anymore.

She looked at me, astonished. Then touched my forehead. Do you have a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Dew, I said, I won't divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn't value the details of our lives, not because we didn't love each other any more. Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death does us apart.

Dew seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away. At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and wrote:'I'll carry you out every morning until death do us apart'

The small details of our lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, the property, the bank balance that matters. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves. So find time to be your spouse's friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy.

Do have a real happy marriage!